I have an amazing friend who knows how to find the best in every situation.   She is a walking example of grace, compassion, namaste.   When she journals she isn’t likely to scribble out her frustrations and anger and vent. Instead she goes directly to the heart of the matter:  she finds the positive and writes about that.  Horrible, terrible day?  She writes five ten things that were good.  Let down again by the person who should have always been there for her?  She remembers and celebrates and thanks them for the times they were there.

Wait, I know what you’re thinking.  “Pollyanna!”  But that’s not her at all.  She’s savvy, wise, thoughtful.  The friend who inspires me to open my heart, but also warns me when I should watch my back.  She’s real.  I’ve even heard her complain…once or twice.

Dear friend I am so very grateful for you.  I learn from you everytime I see you.  I’m a better person for knowing you.  If only I’d know to ask for a side of wisdom with my hamburger and fries all those years ago.  Thank you.